Friday, September 09, 2011

Calculating Kindness

As we were driving around town today, we had an opportunity to give some change to the firemen collecting for MDA, Fill the Boot.  I put the money in the boot and the fireman gave me a sticker for Joseph and Sarah.

Joseph was trying to decide what to do with his sticker and hit upon the idea to make a card for another boy in his Primary class.  He is sure that if he makes a "gift card" for someone, they won't, "be's mean to [him]."

Now that is thinking the situation through, Joseph!  Hopefully, that works better for Joseph than it has for the older kids who have been singled out by a cranky bus driver to get in trouble every day.  Killing her with kindness didn't kill her or make her kinder.

Incidentally, Joseph's friend in Primary isn't picking on him.  He's a boy with some developmental delays that bounces around a bit in the classroom.  Compared to Joseph, the boy probably seems like a wild animal.  But that's only because Joseph climbs up into his seat and nearly disappears into his shyness.

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